COVID-19 changed life for most of us, but one of the hardest things to see is photos of loved ones in nursing homes peering out the windows at family. Not only that, but the news has been full of stories of seniors catching the virus in facilities. Families who once made the emotional decision to place a loved one in nursing care now find themselves facing another dilemma – should we consider bringing a loved one home from a nursing home?
The decision has implications either way, but there are a few things you should consider before making the move.
Consider Your Home
Often, the decision to bring a parent or other loved one home is emotional. As with any emotional decision, it is easy to let important logical considerations fall through the cracks. Something you absolutely must think about is your home’s current configuration.
Are they physically able to get into your home? How will they bathe? Where will their bed be? Can they get in and out of bed on their own? If not, are you physically able to help them? How will they maneuver throughout your home?
All of these issues are solvable, but it is best to figure them out proactively rather than after your family member is already in your home.
Many times, those issues can be overcome with ramps, stairlifts, walk-in tubs & showers, grab bars, hospital beds, and etc.
Consider Your Loved One’s Needs – Both Emotional and Physical
Another consideration is your loved one’s care. Remember, they are in a facility now receiving some level of care. Are you realistically able to provide such care yourself?
The following questions can help you navigate the feasibility of moving your loved one.
- Does your loved one want to move?
- Are you willing to modify your home? If so, what is your budget?
- Can you provide adequate care?
- Bathroom & hygiene help
- Meals
- Medication
- Other specialized care
What will you do if someone in your home contracts COVID?
